Your soul mate is in the mirror

For so many years I felt like a soul mate zombie with my arms outstretched. “Souullll mate?? Where’s my soul mate????”

I was literally obsessed with finding my “other half”. That one person who could “complete me”.

Because I didn’t feel whole or complete myself.

This desperation to find love outside of myself led me to attract partner after partner who weren’t good matches for me.

Usually these toxic relationships felt delicious at first.

But as the relationship ran its course, the sweetness turned sour.

And all the wounds that brought me to obsess over finding my soul mate in the first place were ripped open again.

In my journey to heal my relationship with food, I discovered how LITTLE I had been loving myself.

And how this self hatred was at the root of my war with food.

So I committed myself to healing, and growing my self love flame.

Learning to see my beauty. Love my company. And treat myself like I had always wished a partner would treat me.

It wasn’t easy at first. But after enough practice, I learned to adore myself. And see that self love is the best love of all!!

When you love yourself unconditionally, you are completely free!!

You always have your best friend with you, inside of you.

Every morning there is someone with you that tells you are beautiful and perfect exactly the way you are.

Every day you have someone with you to celebrate your victories and wipe away your tears.

And that person is never going away!!

I invite you today gorgeous being, to give some love to your beautiful self.

Give yourself a hug. Write yourself a love note. Buy yourself the kind of gift you always buy for your loved ones.

Because your beautiful heart is bursting with love! And once you start nourishing yourself on that love, rather than giving it all away to others, you step into your power!!

And if there’s anything the world needs right now, it’s you, oozing love for yourself, fully in your essence.

Speaking your truth and sharing your magic with us all!